What if I stopped Planning?

As everyone knows I keep a planner for my whole life and I follow the plan as sacred. The reason for that is that for a long time, it brought me sanity and kept my stress level really low. I never had to worry about anything because it was always in the planner. It also allowed me to ensure that I spent time every month with my family and my friends because they were scheduled in and nobody would ever get cancelled for anybody else. But this summer, my system has failed to keep the serene balance that I enjoy so much. When my life feels like it is in turmoil, its always time for a change. So what if I stopped planning all but weddings and B-days? I always envied people who can just pickup and go because I never have that much free time but maybe I can become that person....hmmm. We shall see!

Next stop DR

So I managed to find a ticket to Puerto Plata that was non-stop on Friday night. It was still $426 but much better than what I have seen up until that point. I am now looking for a hotel that I don't have to pay for until I get there. I sure hope he appreciates this...I have never even thought about treating somebody to a vacation until I got married. We usually keep all gifts below $100 because the object of this relationship was not for either of us to go broke ;-) Y'all know that I would have booked myself on two trip with that money...hehe!

I am going to call his mother and Eric to come up with a way of getting him to take those days off and still be surprised. I don't really know his boss so I can't e-mail him but I can tell his mom to come up with a family trip to South Carolina or something. Stay tuned because you never know who I need to drag into the plot!

Can somebody send me on What not to Wear?

I had yet another exciting couple of hours of working on the weekend...I bore myself thinking about my life at the moment. At least I get to watch the "What Not to Wear" show all afternoon. They had this CPA on today who was such a pain in the a*** and I am wondering why can't I be on the show and get a makeover + $5000? I would be the most pleasant person ever and I would have a ball. Although it will be tough to go on a shopping spree without Ebo..sniff, sniff. You know that my house consumes all my shopping money so can somebody please help me get a makeover? Do you want to risk me becoming the... gasp (dramatic pause) wife who let herself go?

Ok, I am going to take a nap now and I am not cooking today either, I am going to be self-indulgent for a few hours ;-)